Looking for a good friend who is intelligent, open minded and is good hearted. I am single mother with three sons, (two in university, one at home). I am a phd student in the last semester of course work at the unversity at buffalo. I work part-time as a research assistant. I like golfing, listening to r&b and gardening. Looking For: The ideal mate is good hearted, intelligent and open minded in regards to learning and life in general. Self confidence is also necessary and a turn on.