Looking for a penpal friend Maybe more

hi my name is Krislynn, i am 23 i live in southern cali... i am looking for a penpal friend, maybe more someday...i am wierd becuz i cant just fall for a man, til i get to know him very well i think its a matter of trust...once i know i can trust you anything is possable. Looking For: i am looking for kind sweet giving man, who dosnt have to like all the same as me...but respects me and my feelings and vis versa! i am into long hair'ed men rugged lloking men...and someone who has a great since of humar, and would love to hang out with family and just have down time...