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Female
Never Married
Gilroy, California
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Wanted: Partner in crime..........inquire within

What to say...well I am a 36yr old single mom to a wonderful and extremely active 7 yr old boy.If asked,the people who know me, would probably describe me as being very honest(sometimes too much so),dependable, trustworthy, acceptive, generous,friendly, giving personwho is a great listener, and an even better conversationalist. Who at times, is stubborn, opinionated(if I believe in it),a bit loud (can't help it it's the italian New Yorker in me), has a bit of a temper, when provoked.(Again the Italian thing), yet tries not to hold a grudge, does her best and gives her all in every thing she does!!! A go getter indeed. Looking For: Hi I am interested in finding somewhat of a "normal" man, if there any left out there. Someone who is honest and trustworthy, A man who knows the definition of gentleman and chooses to portray it. Is comfortable in all situations, be it black tie or beach bumming. I would like someone who appreciates my independant nature, but who can also take my hand and lead the way sometimes. Someone who believes that besides honesty and trust, communication is the key to a good relationship.My partner will have to know that jealous and controlling personalities will not ever be tollerated! He must be both emotionally and financially stable(tired of supporting the men in ,my life financially, and NO I'm NOT JOKING!! ) I guess I'm saying, just looking for a well rounded, respectable man, who knows how to treat a woman, like a lady. Someone who accepts me for me, quirks and all. Someone I can bring home to mom!

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Blue
Physique
Voluptuous
Height
5'  7"   (170 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Trying to Quit
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
Maybe
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Technical School
Occupation
Fashion / Style / Modeling / Apparel / Beauty
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Some Other Viewpoint
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Alternative, Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, Dance / Electronica / House, Rock & Roll, Hard Rock / Metal, Reggae, Acoustic
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Jack Nicholson,Tom Hanks, Matthew McCanhey, Michael Douglas, Andy Garcia
Favorite Actresses
Meg Ryan, Ashley Judd, Demi Moore,
Favorite Artists
Van Gough
Favorite Athletes
Lance Armstrong
Favorite Authors
Stephen King, Mayia Angelow
Favorite Bands
Matchbox 20
Favorite Hangouts
Seabright Brewery in Santa Cruz
Favorite Books
The Tao for today's parenting
Favorite Cities
Manhattan,NY
Favorite Clothing Stores
Fashion Bug , Lane Bryant
Favorite Colors
green
Favorite Country
Italy
Favorite Drinks
Cosmo, or a really good margarita
Favorite Fashion Designers
Ralph Lauren
Favorite Fast Foods
Quiznos
Favorite Magazines
First for women
Favorite Comedies
Four Seasons, The Wedding Singer, 50 First Dates
Favorite Dramas
When a Man Loves a Woman, Titanic,The Big Chill
Favorite Horror Movies
The Others or The Sixth Sense( don't have to be bloody to be scary)
Favorite Action Movies
2Fast and 2Furious/ nicolas cage& john travolta flic
Favorite News Anchor
Dan from KSBW channel 8 news
Favorite Night Clubs
No longer open
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
the neck, tummy, inside of my thigh
Favorite Plays
Rent, The Lion King
Favorite Politicians
Diane Fienstein
Favorite Sports Teams
SFGiants, SF49ers,SJSharks
Favorite Quote From A Movie
If you don't have anything nice to say, come sit by me!
Favorite Restaurants
The Faultline in Sunnyvale and The Shadowbrook in Capitola
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Lonely No More by Rob Thomas
Favorite Sports
Nascar racing & Baseball,
Favorite Stocks
yahoo
Favorite TV Comedies
Seinfeld, Queer eye for the straight guy, Everyone loves Raymond
Favorite TV Dramas
Law & Order
Favorite TV News Sources
Dateline or 20/20
Favorite Foods
I have to pick one? Mexican...chinease
Favorite Styles Of Music
anything except death,speed metal and gangster rap, My favorite is Motown
Interests
Acting
never, get stage fright
Animals
love em all
Antiques
a treasure from times past/Someone else junk is another mac
Art
should be everwhere, it expands the mind
Astrology
I'll meet you where Jupiter's moon reaches nm
Astronomy
lets map the stars together, maybe ride the milky way
Barbecues
love them
Bars
over them
Basketball
Michael Jordan......need I say more?
Biology
so we have to disect that frog huh?
Board Games
scrabble anyone
Business Finance
have the knack for it if it doesnt concern mine
Camping
luv it...Big Sur is the best to camp at
Card Games
Phase 10, Blackjack, 7 card stud
Children
Tomorrow's future,treat them like a flower, love them, and fill their minds with knowledge, they will flourish
Comedy
laughter is just what the doctor ordered
Community Service
a good thing to do
Cooking
love it , dont have time to do it as much as i used to
Dancing
some of my most favorite memories are of dancing
Dating
too much work, for something that should be so simple, ends up being hard
Dogs and Cats
love them
Drawing
i can make a stick figure and donald duck
Electronics
over my head
Exercise
enjoyable if done indoors with a partner in the horizontal position...i believe it is referred to as contact sports..lol
Food
love all different kinds
Football
like to look at the tight buttsin those uniforms
Gambling
love it , hate to say it doesn't love me
Gardening
my meditation
Guns
hate them
Internet
resourceful
Live Concerts
love em
Math
sqaure root of what x's 6is = to pie root squre
Medicine
never finish it
Movies
love chic flics
Opera
Andrea Bochelli, the voice of an angel
Pets
cats
Philosophy
why ? ........why not?
Photography
pictures todau are our memories for tomorrow
Politics
don't get involved
Psychology
reverse works well
Radio
turn it up, windows down, now drive
Reading
when i get the time
Religion
believe in something
Rugs
rather have hard wood floors
Running
only if being chased
School
pay attention you just might learn something
Shopping
hate doing it, but love to find a bargain
Singing
in the car,at work, in the shower where ever I can without getting egged
Sky Diving
would be the ultimate adrenalin rush
Snowboarding
looks cool
Soccer
too much running
Stock Market
is on my sh**list
Technology
thank god for it
Television
never touch the stuff
Tennis
used to play
Theater
love it
Traveling
wish I could do more
Video Games
give me anxiety attacks
Walking
is boring if done for exercise
Writing
opens up everything , lets emotions just flow out
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Average
Trustingness Somewhat Gullible
Confidence Somewhat Humble
Independence Very Independent
Mood Intense
Romance Average
Sociability Average
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Somewhat Unbending
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Very High
Go Party Never
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always Late
Spending Somewhat Spendthrift
Work Ethic Workaholic
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
evening alone, no kids, bottle of wine,dinner we cook together, candles, on a blanket outdoors under a star filled sky. As for the weekend, can be a number of things...spent with the kids camping in Big Sur, or beachouse or alone time in Napa wine tasting or testing our luck in Vegas. Just having fun together, enjoying each others company.
How many kids would you like to have?
As many as the good Lord thinks I am capable of handling.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Would like to be a size 16 again
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
I would make all people accepting of those around them. There will always be different classes of people, maybe if we all accepted each other,for who we are-one not better than the next, the world might be a more pleasant place to live.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
Being domesticated "super mom".....I volunteer for everthing from PTA, to Room Mom, to Tball Coach....You name it, I've done it or will be in the near future.
What gets on your nerves?
Liars and stupid people(meaning those who choose not to use any common sense)...and people who think they are better than others...you know the ones I'm talking about, the snooty snobs who look down on people like they are beneath them...I have no tolerance for them at all and have been known to issue a reality check now and again,
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Loyalty, honesty, communication, genuine ,respect,trust,equality, acceptance...
What turns you off?
liars, boasters,fighters/abusers, alcoholics,drug addicts,homophobic men-men who think they have to be a mans man, controlling jealous types, men who think woman should stand behind them and just look good. Any man who does not support his children. And I don't just mean financially, I mean emotionally. Being lazy!
What turns you on?
A man who smells good! Strong arms. Being able to show your emotions. Someone who stands up for the little guy. A man who can cook. A man who knows how to clean, and actually does it. A family man. Lastly, a man who can paint a woman's toenails, and is secure enough in himself and his sexuality, to do it.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
I try not to live in the past or the future.Rather, I try to live my life each day in the present, the here and now, not worrying about what has happened in the past, these things I can not change. And not worrying about what is to come in the future, that's in God's hands. I try (somedays harder than others) to just "BE", right here, right now, and enjoy what is in front of me.
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