BBW in Kansas looking for a friend

I am a divorced BBW, my children are grown and I am now free to have a life of my own. I would like to meet a nice gentleman to be able to do things with him. I have spent the last 14 years raising my kids and now it is my turn for some fun. Looking For: I would like to meet someone who would like to become friends first. I want someone who would like a long term relationship. Someone who is happy going and doing things but also just hanging out at home. Someone who knows what they want out of life and is going for it.