Really hoping this works

Hello thanks for stopping by. Disclaimer: Only a man in full need apply :) I don't want to put to much on here for people to scrutinize if your interested in knowing me, send an email. Off the bat I'm not a "player", as you can see from that "dated" terminology alone I'm not in the game. I'm a one man woman so if your living w/your significant & smiling at me don't be shocked if I decline. If you're looking for something to jump off right away then I might not be the one. I learned from experience that cultivating a friendship first is vital for any sustainable relationship, hence the "Seeking" status. I want to grow a relationship from that level first, really get to know you, then perhaps if you are the one start on a life long relationship where both parties feelings, desires, interest, & goals are supported by each other and respected. I am not settling so if your planning on just displaying some representative of yourself to impress me, don't, then have me saying. "I was hoodwinked, been had, led amok!" :) Seriously all jokes aside, I would be much more impressed if you would just be yourself flaws and all & allow me the option of deciding if I like said flaws. I am not looking to change someone & not looking to be changed, I'm 36 so I'm pretty much me. Really though... I'm a southern gal so if you're thinking anything less than what a gentleman should think, pass me by, I'm not here for sexting, so perverts & scam artist need not respond. Thanks